Family, Mindsets & Guilt Trips

If you’re succeeding in life and trying to create a better life for your parents, siblings or extended family, you should read this. One of the hardest things you’ll come up against is mindset. It is what will cause you the most sorrow. Let me explain using a Nigerian example. You believe in having electricity[…]

Conversation Gone Wrong

We tend to betray our provincialism and desire to control others in our conversations. Scarcely can we hide our mindsets, even when we try. Anytime I have the three conversations that follow, I am deeply saddened by most of the exchanges. Conversation One You: Hi dear. Are you home yet? (It’s 7pm) Me: (Ignores the[…]