Friendzone

This story is about love. My friend was in love with me but I didn’t know. He didn’t always love me. He wasn’t used to kindness you see, and that was his undoing. One day, he mentioned that he was feeling blue and so I decided to cheer him up. I invited him to a[…]

MMM and Love

Yesterday, I had a conversation with someone about MMM (Mavrodi Mondial Movement) in Nigeria. The individual said it was akin to lottery or gambling. I once gambled at Montecasino in Johannesburg. Being the sharp Naija girl that I am, I stopped immediately I made a profit on my money. I see five clear distinctions between[…]

I’m Hungry

Some types of sexual hunger are very specific. It’s why it’s ridiculous and unhelpful to suggest that one eats whatever is available. There is a sexual hunger that accompanies the exhilaration of achievement so having a safe outlet is essential for overachievers. Then there is a sexual hunger that accompanies loneliness. No, it’s not a hunger[…]