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We Are The Church

We Are The Church

I no longer obsess about what the Church in Nigeria is doing or not doing. I am the Church too. Let me focus on my own constituency, instead of getting my panties in a twist over what others are doing in their own constituencies. If you ruminate too much on what is...
Giftings & Character

Giftings & Character

I am deeply troubled by the stories of rape and abuse in the Church, on my social media timeline. I am reminded that personal morality is man’s responsibility and those who outsource it to the “anointing” are delusional. Elisha was a child murderer...
Dangers Of Mentoring

Dangers Of Mentoring

Unless they are life coaches, therapists or very wise, many mentors cannot help their mentees to see multiple paths to their life goals. Usually, the mentors can only model what they know – their own paths and decisions. Unfortunately, those things may not be...
Time To Grow Up!

Time To Grow Up!

Three things define most adults: 1. The capacity to make decisions 2. The character to accept the consequences of decisions 3. The ability to take care of yourself Sadly, many never complete the transition from childhood to adulthood. Like the Biblical Adam, who...
Pursuit of Happiness

Pursuit of Happiness

Living in a great nation (or having money) may not make you happy. In his book, Homo Deus, Yuval Noah Harari does a better job of providing data points to support this, than I can. (See Chapter One, sub-section, The Right to Happiness.) What living in a great nation...
Mentor not Master

Mentor not Master

As a mentor, one thing you should have at the back of your mind is, it’s not your dream or life. Don’t stop your mentees from trying things, even if they fail. Your mentees have motivations you don’t have. They see things about their dreams that you...